When we get into a new relationship, we experience an all-time high. We get ecstatic about the prospects in this new partnerships. This “high” we experience every time we enter a new relationship is called the honeymoon phase. We often feel like things will be wonderful forever, but we all know that, sometimes, things don’t turn out the way we plan.

New Relationship Won’t Work If You Spot These Signs At The Beginning

Of course, nobody goes into a relationship without the thought of bringing it forward into the future. However, plenty of things can happen. We could find out that our partner never wanted something serious. Or, we might have fallen out of love with our partner after the honeymoon phase. It’s a sad truth, but not all new relationships work out.

There are actually signs for us to watch out for if we want to know early on if our new relationship will survive:

1. No discussions about the future.

This is your first red flag – there is absolutely no discussion about where your relationship is going. When you bring up the subject, your partner will immediately change the topic or will not tackle the topic in a direct manner.

2. There are critical incompatibilities.

Sometimes, incompatibility is not a big deal. But, if you can’t seem to agree on big things, it becomes a problem. For example, you don’t see eye to eye with your partner on topics about money or children.

3. Long-distance relationships with no concrete plans.

A lot of couples go into long-distance relationships, thinking that their love and attraction alone can bring them through. It’s tough enough when you are together, but how about when you’re in an entirely different country?

A new relationship is all about getting to know each other and determining whether you can move on. If you are far away from each other, it is challenging to fulfill these tasks. So, you’d have to have a concrete plan on how to go about things. If your relationship doesn’t have a structure and a plan of action to stay connected, it’s not going to work out eventually.

4. Different priorities.

In a relationship, two different people bring in their personalities, attitudes, behavior, backgrounds, and of course, priorities. If you cannot seem to reach a compromise in your priorities, then probably nothing will change in the future.

Most of the items on this list are like hard pills to swallow because we’re always hopeful that things might just be permanent with our partner. There’s hope though – you can talk your differences with your partner out but he or she has to be willing to work on things for your new relationship to survive. For more tips on dating, read our blog.

In life, we cannot avoid arguments. We may think about them negatively, but they are like salt and pepper in every relationship, or even friendship. We all have different views and backgrounds which is why arguments are inevitable. However, if one learns to be a more persuasive partner, it might be easier to resolve arguments or even avoid them in the near future.

Become A Persuasive Partner With These Tips

Being a persuasive partner doesn’t mean that we are going to win every debate that we get into with our partner. It simply means that we allow our partner to see the situation through our eyes. Here are some tips on how you can be persuasive:

1. Recognize that an argument is not to fight.

As mentioned, arguments happen because of different points of view. Look at it this way: an argument happens because you need to bring across a point. But, you can do it in a way that’s calm, healthy and productive.

2. Ask questions.

After you’ve changed your perspective on arguments, ask questions. To understand the other person better, the key thing is to get their thoughts by asking. These questions, when answered, should bring clarity.

3. Be straight to the point.

A lot of arguments tend to progress into a misunderstanding and eventually a fight when we beat around the bush. We have all heard of the “he said, she said” kind of situation. If you say what you really mean, you’ll be less likely misunderstood.

4. Check your tone and body language.

We all know how much trouble we can get into with the incorrect tone of voice. Avoid creating a tense atmosphere just by sounding kinder. Also, a persuasive partner is quick to apologize if the other party tenses up because of an angry tone or aloof body language.

5. Be a good listener.

Listen actively in order to understand your partner’s stand. Process what your partner is saying and don’t just listen because you want to formulate a good come back.

Try these tips and let’s see how persuasive you can really be. For other tips on improving relationships, read the rest of our blog.

It’s the time of the year to dress like whoever we want. We can be a vampire, we can be a zombie, or even a member of the royal family. It’s always fun during Halloween. But aside from the events and parties, did you know that it’s actually one of the best times of the year to find a date?

It May Be Easier For You To Find A Date During Halloween

Back in the early twentieth century, did you know that Halloween was celebrated with lesser emphasis on spooky houses and scary monster costumes? Believe it or not, it’s emphasis was more on courtship.

It was an event where the opportunity for love spread in the air. The celebration included invitations, decorations, and maintaining social relationships. While the men were in a prank-ish mood, the ladies were more concerned with merry-making.

The men would attend parties put together by the ladies and then play games that potentially revealed romance.

Fast Forward To Today

Now, the scene may have changed but the merry-making spirit still remains. Halloween is proving to still be one of the best times in the year to find a date, and here’s why:

1. It’s A Good Ice Breaker

Questions similar to: “What or who are you supposed to be?” will be very common. This will be your in. You don’t have to think about what type of conversation you’re going to go with because it’s Halloween.

If the costume isn’t the focus, you can always find a date by striking up a conversation about how Halloween is celebrated. For example, if you’re chatting with a woman from Europe, you can ask what it’s like when it’s Halloween in their town.

2. The Allure Of The Mask

Who doesn’t want a little bit of mystery when finding a date? Whenever we wear costumes, sometimes, it’s much easier for us to approach someone at parties. Grab the chance to do so while your costume still gives you the allure of mystery.

3. Social Events Both Online And Offline

You don’t have to look far and wide for ladies who might be interested in you because Halloween is still a time for social events. There are plenty of parties for grown-ups that you can join, especially online.

While the air is still crisp with the essence of Halloween, try your luck at love. You might just be surprised by how many women are willing to converse with you. For more dating tips, check out the rest of our blog.

Often times, when a couple shares a life together, they become unaware that their significant other also needs their attention. It’s understandable to sometimes focus on work, friends, yourself, and family, but our partner shouldn’t be in the back seat. This is why sincere words that can make any woman feel special or loved can go a long way.

Practice Saying These Phrases To Make Her Feel Special

The phrases that you can use to make your loved one feel special can actually do more for your relationship. Because you’re giving your partner some attention, she will likely do the same for you. This can result in a closer bond that renews the spark that you may have already lost. Without further ado, here are the phrases that you need to practice:

Phrase #1: “Life has definitely been better because of you.”

When you make her feel like your life has improved, it validates all the effort that she has done to make you feel taken care of. This phrase will make her feel appreciated.

Phrase #2: “What do you think about this?”

We don’t usually ask our significant other’s opinion most of the time, but make it a habit to do so. It will make her feel wanted. It will make her feel that her opinion matters to you.

Phrase #3: “The boys loved your guacamole last Thursday.”

Do your friends give your partner compliments? Make sure to let her know. Women feel extra special when your friends actually recognize her efforts. It could be a compliment to her cooking or a compliment about how clean your house is. Whatever it is, it’ll make her feel accepted.

Women Need Validation Just Like You Do

The best thing about these phrases is that the more you practice them, the more aware you become. They don’t just make your girl feel special, but they also make you focus some of your attention on your girl. As mentioned, this might be the key to bringing the spark in your relationship back.

You don’t have to follow the exact phrases listed above too. You can change them up a bit as long as you understand the general idea of how the phrases should make her feel. For more tips about improving relationships, check out more of our blog.