What is the one aspect of courtship, dating or relationships that men fail at most of the time? Can you guess what the answer is? When you’re dating a woman, with whom you are smitten, you usually attempt to understand her so you’ll know how to make your blossoming relationship better. But, and this is the answer to the question earlier, you can never fully understand how a woman’s brain works because women are complex creatures. Do you agree that no matter how hard you try you can never understand women? Well, we at AnastasiaDate don’t want you to be in the dark, so we’ve compiled a short list of the basics of how a woman’s mind works.
It’s almost summer time and it can only mean one thing when it comes to dating – a lot of singles will want to have summer flings. If you’re single, you may want the same thing. However, before you start dating this summer, you must, first, tell yourself specific positive decisions.
Positive Decisions That Will Help You Succeed At Summer Dating
What do positive decisions have to do with dating? A lot, actually. As you are meeting new people on the internet or in real life, it’s inevitable for some of them to reject you. Rejection is part of the process. However strong your want for a summer fling is, you should never settle. So, what positive affirmations do is remind you of your worth:
Before we get into what breadcrumbing is, let’s talk about ghosting so we have all bases covered.
Ghosting means that you go off the radar without any warning or explanation. For example, you’ve been talking to this beautiful European girl for a while. You, then, decide that you don’t like her as much, so you stop all communication with her without telling her anything – not even a goodbye.
Now, we can move on to breadcrumbing. It is a term used to describe an online dater who contacts you on and off, not really making his or her intentions clear. This dater leaves enough “crumbs” for you to be interested but then disappears without a trace. After a few weeks or months, the dater resurfaces, starting the cycle of leaving crumbs all over again.
How to Avoid It
Now, do you see why both ghosting and breadcrumbing have negative connotations? You have to avoid doing both at all costs because you don’t want to lead someone on only to break their heart in the end. Here are some tips on how to avoid ghosting and breadcrumbing:
Be clear with your intentions
If you don’t like a person or if you just want to remain friends with a person, tell them.
Don’t go for the easy way out
Telling someone the truth. It can sting a little, but it’s better than to leave them hanging.
Be aware of your actions
Flirting with someone online is not a bad thing, but make sure that you don’t flirt too much to the point where a person mistakes it for you wanting to have a relationship.
Aside from being honest about the type of relationship you want, you should also be honest if you won’t be able to go online for a few days or weeks. For example, if you’re going on a business trip, or if you’re busy. This way, they won’t feel like you ditched them.
All your decisions should be final
Before saying anything to the person you may be interested in online, make sure that what you’re feeling is not fleeting. If you tell her that you’d rather be friends, you cannot take it back.
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The One Dating Approach To Never Try
The worst piece of advice one can follow concerns the fallacy that women are actually intrigued by guys who treat them in a mean manner. We have all heard the old adage “treat them mean, keep them keen”, but why is it completely wrong and outdated?
First and foremost, this is wrong because you are not in school anymore. High School girls may have such low self-esteem that they think they actually deserve to be treated badly, but grown-up women know better. If a woman is mistreated, she will most likely think that she doesn’t deserve it and walk away.
Second, with the technological advances today giving us the opportunity to communicate in a thousand different ways from wherever we are, there is simply no excuse to delay replying to a text message anymore. If you purposely delay a reply too much, chances are she will think you are not interested enough and write you off completely. It is less likely that she will get hooked on you for ignoring her like this.
The technological advances mentioned above also mean that the “relationship pool” is a lot bigger nowadays, meaning there’s a lot more potential “fish” out there for her to look for. And with the hectic pace of our lives these days, it is highly unlikely that any sane woman will stick by someone who is playing it too cool to reply to a message or to pick up the phone.
In a nutshell, unless you are a high school student, it is unacceptable to treat a woman with anything less than respect and honesty. With the opportunity of International Women’s Day being close, we would like to remind men to never get carried away by advice that urges them to pretend to be something they are not and mistreat women in any way. Remember that meaningful and fulfilling relationships can only be built on mutual trust and sincerity.
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