There’s always the important question of what to say when speaking with a match for the first time online. Many men and women often begin by asking a match a few facts about their life: where are you from? What do you do? Then, a match may respond by sharing facts about themselves: where they live, what they do for fun, their occupation.

Read on to find out about the prime mistake made by most people when flirting both online and in-person.

Right, so most conversations will flow naturally between you and a match you’re dating online. Both people are chilled out and they each take turns talking. Quality always flows in both directions. But now and then when you flirt with someone online or offline, you may get a little nervous and struggle to think of something to say. That’s when you make the biggest error in flirting – asking questions to keep the conversation moving.

You don’t have to be the smoothest talker when it comes to connecting with a match from Europe or another part of the world. Breaking the ice sometimes only requires staying relaxed, being yourself and finding plenty to talk about.

Many people are often good at the basic skills of banter but they often fall back on fact-based conversation after the initial stages. Although things may start well, a member can sometimes get bored and respond less often. What some people often misunderstand is the act of interpretation.