We often think that finding true love needs to come from outside forces. For example, to find true love in this day and age, you need to be signed up to a dating site. This is true and everyone needs to take advantage of technology to find true love. However, what you need to look into first is finding love within yourself.
The First Step For You To Find True Love Is Accepting These Beliefs
Whether you believe that this is true or not, you cannot take away from the fact that you won’t be able to love someone fully if you don’t accept certain truths. Here’s your wake up call:
1. Not everyone will be attracted to me.
To you, this may sound like a negative but you have to realize that this is a fact. Not everyone you meet will find you attractive. You are not everyone’s type. This doesn’t mean that you’re not good looking. This simply means that you can get rejected, and that’s OK.
Rejection is a big part of dating, both online and offline. The sooner you accept that not everyone will be into you, the better you will handle rejection.
2. I cannot find ultimate happiness in my relationship.
Let’s get one thing straight. Your relationship will make you happier, but you should never appoint it as the source of your ultimate happiness. This should come from you. If you’re relying on your partner to make you feel good, you’ll probably be let down half of the time. We all make mistakes, remember that.
3. My relationship isn’t going to be romantic all the time.
We have lives to maintain. You may have a career and so does your partner. Both of you may be attending to family matters. Both of you could need rest. To tell you the truth, thinking that things are going to be romantic all the time is simply unrealistic.
The sooner you accept these truths, the closer you will be to finding the love of your life. Remember to start from within. Focus on healing your inner self if you need it so the next relationship you get into won’t be strained by your lack of inner love. For more tips on self-development and dating, read our blog.