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Little Things That Show Genuine Attraction and True Romance

Here at AnastasiaDate, we believe in dating, not data. These days it seems like everyone is trying to crack the code and crunch the numbers of attraction, but there’s no universal quantitative measurement for true romance, butterflies in your stomach, or the throb of your heart.

Signs That Will Show You You Are Living The True Romance

In fact, there is nothing factual or scientific about romance that can be applied to every single person out there–how boring would life be if there were? We’re not interested in boring. We want you to connect–to interact spontaneously with whomever strikes your fancy, and we can’t wait for you to feel that spark that is your heart’s unique way of letting you know something’s stirring in there.

More hints that might mean something significant is brewing in your heart

  1. You get a message that you hoped to receive from your special someone at the exact moment when you needed it most.
  2. You start focusing on the other person in a video chat session more than sneaking self-conscious peeks at yourself in the thumbnail.
  3. You eat a type of food you’d never dream of trying just because she made it for you. And you enjoy it.
  4. They’re the first person you want to tell when something good happens to you.
  5. They’re the first person you want to tell when something bad happens to you.
  6. Accepting their morning breath.
  7. When you (finally!) meet someone offline for the first time, and feel like you’ve known them all along.
  8. Spending a full day in bed with them, and not thinking about the outside world.
  9. You adore their pet(s), too.
  10. Feeling comfortable letting your guard down at dinner, and really chowing down in front of them.
  11. When you’re stricken by how beautiful she is, even when she thinks she’s at her worst.
  12. You get excited try the things that they love—sports, hobbies, TV shows, whatever.
  13. Your friends know their name.
  14. Talking on the phone doesn’t seem like a chore—you genuinely look forward to it.
  15. Just the thought of her makes you smile.
  16. You worry about them, and wonder about how their day is going.
  17. You feel comfortable just being together in silence.
  18. If they’re far away from you, you automatically think in their time zone.
  19. You can picture your kids.
  20. You happily let them have the last sip or bite.
  21. Blemishes and physical imperfections? You don’t even notice them.
  22. You’re stricken by just a hint of nausea when you’re about to see them or video chat with them.
  23. You didn’t get through this whole list without messaging them at some point.

At the end, it’s OK to just jump in and see what happens. That’s what we believe in, and we’re happy you’re here.

Jump in.

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Learn How to Flirt In A Few Easy Steps

Whenever you flirt or chat with a date – either online or face-to-face – it’s always important not to “interview” your match by asking too many consecutive questions. Instead, try to lead the conversation in a direction that emotionally connects the two of you. There’s a simple technique for connecting with a prospective partner on an emotional level: respond to the emotional content of what they say, rather than the factual content and you can easily say you finally know how to flirt.

The Details Of Learning How To Flirt

For example, if your match says:

“I went skydiving once.”

A fact-based response might look like this: “Cool. My friend is a professional skydiver.”

Whereas an emotion-based response could be something along the lines of: “That’s great. I like when people are adventurous enough to step outside their everyday comfort zone. How did you feel right after you jumped?”

When your match tells you something about themselves, they communicate both factual content (e.g. that they went skydiving) and emotional content (e.g. they are adventurous and love fun). If you respond with a fact about yourself (especially one that “one-ups” her story), it won’t make them feel like you are connecting. If you acknowledge that they are trying to share an emotion, and lead the conversation towards that, the two of you will build a much deeper connection.

It’s tricky to train yourself not to respond with a “me” statement-when we speak to each other, one-upmanship is natural. But when couples do it, it can feel cold and insensitive, or even self-absorbed.

Practice this technique of responding to the emotional content she provides you, and you’ll find that your conversations leave both of you feeling more connected. And then you can also say they you’ve finally learned how to flirt.

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Native Bulgarian Nina Dobrev’s Sexy Red Carpet Looks


Bulgarian beauty Nina Dobrev almost isn’t fair. She magically skirts the line between cutie-pie and sexpot, and she doesn’t look at all out of place when her style veers significantly toward one lane or the other. The talented 27-year old actress, best known for starring in the CW series The Vampire Diaries, was born Nikolina Constantinova Dobrevain in Sofia, Bulgaria. Continue reading Native Bulgarian Nina Dobrev’s Sexy Red Carpet Looks