Think about your dating history. As you do, try to really analyze whether you have been attracting the right type of person or not. You’re going to know because you’ll see how toxic (or not) your previous relationships were. You have to do something to break this pattern and meet people who can be good for you.
What It Takes For You To Attract The Right Type Of Date
First of all, what do you want in a relationship? Do you want casual hook-ups, or do you want something more serious? In most cases, you are dating online or offline for the latter reason. If this is the case, see if you are doing the following measures:
Adjust Your Dating Profile
Review your dating profile, first, if you are dating online. Do you think that your profile represents you for who you are? The tendency is for us to paint ourselves in the best light. We present the most ideal side of ourselves which may not be accurate in real life. You’re starting off in the wrong foot, so you have to be more honest in your dating profile.
Focus On Quality Over Quantity To Attract The Right Type
If you are honest in your dating profile, you also have to be honest with your thoughts or principles. For example, if you are an honest person then be one online and offline. There will be a lot of people who won’t like your honesty, but those who truly appreciate it will be the ones who will give you their time.
Goodbye Wishful Thinking
Now that we have already talked of about authenticity, you should stop thinking that other people will be authentic just because you are. That’s just wishful thinking. You have to practice awareness because not everyone will have good intentions towards you. When you spot and reject players or liars, then you are making way for the right type of person to step in.
Now that you know, do you think that you will be able to attract the right type of person? Remember that the way you talk and the way you act can be contributing factors to meeting the right match. For more tips about dating, read other posts on the blog.