It’s almost summer time and it can only mean one thing when it comes to dating – a lot of singles will want to have summer flings. If you’re single, you may want the same thing. However, before you start dating this summer, you must, first, tell yourself specific positive decisions.
Positive Decisions That Will Help You Succeed At Summer Dating
What do positive decisions have to do with dating? A lot, actually. As you are meeting new people on the internet or in real life, it’s inevitable for some of them to reject you. Rejection is part of the process. However strong your want for a summer fling is, you should never settle. So, what positive affirmations do is remind you of your worth:
“I will honor my needs.”
Remember what you need. You have to bare in mind what you want out of your summer fling. As soon as you fall for someone, you might want to compromise just to please the person. But, you shouldn’t because your needs are just as important as the needs of the other person.
“I am grateful for every experience.”
Not all situations will play out the way you want them to. You just have to go with the flow and see things as they are. For example, if someone you really like doesn’t like you back, then it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re not worthy. You are, but you weren’t just meant to be together.
“I am not my past.”
Never allow your past to define you. Yes, you may have made mistakes in the past, but you have grown from them. You have become a better person because of the lessons you have learned, so don’t allow your mistakes to get to you.
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In order for you to live out these affirmations, you have to be at a good state of mind. See things from a bigger perspective and never be afraid of change or being rejected. For more relationship or dating tips, read other posts on the blog.