AnastasiaDate: Why The “Hell Yeah” Approach Is The Only Approach In Love

Let’s start with a little group confession, just to get it out there: everyone hates loneliness. Now that we’ve established this, we can discuss the issue at hand. How far would you be willing to go to find a partner? How wise is it to spend your time and energy pursuing someone who’s probably not that into you? AnastasiaDate discusses.

AnastasiaDate On Lukewarm Hearts and Half-Baked Attempts

When it comes to finding that special someone, sometimes it’s a matter of seconds, aka love at first sight, and others it’s more of an acquired taste, like friendships turned to romantic relationships. In both cases, though, there is one thing that should be there: the willingness of both parties to say “Hell Yes! I really want to get to know this person; I want to make this work”. Not just you. Not just her.

You should both be enthusiastic about the prospect of spending time together. Why? Because people who are self-respecting, attractive, and non-needy don’t give the time of day to people who are not excited to be with them, or who don’t spark their interest.

The Hell-Yeah Approach’s Benefits For Your Dating Life

Does this approach sound too idealistic or dogmatic? If you think about it, it holds many tangible benefits regarding your dating life.

To begin with, you will no longer be strung along by people who aren’t genuinely interested in you. This will mean your immense disappointment and the tons of anger that follow rejection will go away. This time, you call the shots by not allowing people who have the capacity to hurt you into your life.

Second, you will no longer pursue people you are not really feeling it for just to boost your ego. Most people have gone along with someone they were so-so about just because there was no one else available. Where did that lead you? A relationship that was more boring than an Oscar-acceptance speech.

Once you make the decision to immediately go away unless you’re in the “Hell Yeah” mode, some seemingly hard decisions will be made easy. If you feel like someone’s playing hard to get, acting like a player or pushing you to do something you’re not sure you want to, just ask yourself how you feel about it.

Another serious benefit of the Hell Yeah approach is that it will help you establish your own personal boundaries and stick to them. Maintaining strong boundaries will not only make you more self-respecting and attractive, but it will also help you keep your cool and stay sane in the long run.

Last but not least, choosing to not waste time with people who are either not into you or that you are not that into will give you more time for those who really matter to you. Focus your efforts and channel your energy into people who feel right, who make things seem easy and who want to make you say Hell Yeah, I want to spend my time with you.

In A Nutshell

To cut a long story short, at AnastasiaDate we don’t believe in perfect situations and ideal conditions, but we believe in people’s real feelings and free will. So, if you feel that you genuinely want her and that you are both willing to give things a serious try, go for it with all that you’ve got. But it’s much better to waste no more time and move on to something worth your (and her) while if one (or both) of you is unsure. Simple as that.

All The Ingredients Needed For A Perfect Mystery Trip

Mystery trips are all the rage right now. It is perhaps because we follow a routine day in and day out that we like to be surprised from time to time and love to have things organized for us for a change. If your partner is the kind of person who loves adventure, why not surprise her with a mystery trip to Eastern Europe?

How To Organize A Mystery Trip For Your Partner                                      

It sounds more difficult than it is. There are a few things to factor in, of course, like your budget, your preferences and, worst of all, your schedule.  Once you know where you (and your partner) would like to go, you should start looking for tickets and accommodation, again depending on your collective preferences.

If you like luxurious hotels and she is more about camping, it may be a good idea to take the middle path so that you’ll both be happy, but since the mystery trip is mainly organized for her, don’t ignore her desires.

Where You Should Take Her For That Mystery Trip

Eastern Europe is such a marvelous place with such diverse choices you may find it hard to pick just one. Here are some suggestions for you.

Russia

Although it is far from an economical destination, the world’s largest country is a real delight to see. From its amazing historic cities (not just Moscow) that host some of the best, most impressive art in the world, to its vast countryside, the most breathtaking railway stations, epic train rides, and vodka-fueled nightlife, visiting Russia is an experience like no other.

Russia is one of the top choices for a mystery trip with your partner.
A visit to Russia is an unforgettable experience.

Croatia

If your partner likes being greeted with two kisses, enjoys warm hospitality, appreciates the combination of sapphire seas and an unforgettable après-ski experience in the country’s mountains, and also loves partying hard, Croatia is an amazing option for a mystery trip. The Mediterranean gem of a country is like a box of assorted chocolates – you will want to try all its different sides and tastes.

One of the best locations for a mystery trip is beautiful Dubrovnik.
Dubrovnik is one of the most popular tourist destinations in the Mediterranean Sea.

The Czech Republic

The Czech capital, Prague, is one of the most iconic cities in the world. Combining gothic architecture with more modern twists, here’s a place where you can take in the romantic views from the 14th-century Charles Bridge, which connects two historic neighborhoods across the Vltava River, and also enjoy some of the best beer in the world. If your girl is a foodie, this is the place for her, as the Czech Republic is one of the fastest emerging foodie destinations in the world.

Choose the Czech Republic as your mystery trip destination.
Not many places in the world are more romantic than the Czech Republic.

Greece

From the historic and mythical capital of Athens with its unique monuments (like the Acropolis) and the other beautiful cities around it (like Salonika in the north)  to the picturesque islands of this small Mediterranean country, there is something for everyone in Greece – cultural visits, an amazing cuisine, a vivid nightlife and some of the most wonderful nature. With Greece being one of the most popular tourist destinations since forever, Greeks love to take care of visitors every way they can.

Greece is another mystery trip idea.
Santorini is a Greek island that’s the perfect romantic destination for a mystery trip.

Hungary

Does your partner love art nouveau and do you think she’d enjoy the serenity of the Danube river? Do you dream of taking a thermal spa in one of the best naturally warm springs in the world and taking in the views of a city that looks even more beautiful after dark? If so, book your mystery trip to Hungary, the country that’s given us Rubik’s cube, color TV, the ballpoint pen and the delicious goulash soup.

Hungary is a great choice for a mystery trip to Eastern Europe.
Budapest is one of the most beautiful cities after dark.

Hope we’ve inspired you and that you will soon plan a mystery trip to Eastern Europe for your loved one. If you want to find out more about trips to Eastern Europe, you may find more detailed info on certain locations in our blog.

For the chance to meet exciting Eastern European ladies who will be able to tell you much more about their place of origin, visit AnastasiaDate today. You can also visit our Instagram page if you’re a visual kind of person.

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The Dos And Don’ts For People Visiting Russia For The First Time

It’s only natural for first-time visitors to a place not to know how things work there. It seems that when it comes to visiting Russia, there are quite a few things to keep in mind.

Visiting Russia? Look Out For These Things

From who to smile at to how to drink your vodka and where to shake hands, Russians seem to be very particular about their way of life. No visitor should go to Russia without knowing these things, so pay attention.

DO dress up for a night out

Muscovites’ “face control” is notoriously strict, so you’d better make extra effort to look great when you hit the clubs, posh restaurants, and theaters in the Russian capital. For women, high heels and nice dresses are a must, while a total black look usually works fine for men.

DO expect to foot the bill when you invite someone out

In Russia, if you invite someone out to eat, irrespective of their gender, you are considered the host and expected to pick up the tab. Asking to go Dutch when you invite someone out is considered rude.

DON’T mix your vodka drink           

Do you enjoy your mix of vodka and orange juice back home? Forget about that in Russia. Here, it is something of a sin to mix vodka with anything. In fact, Russians drink their vodka in shots so a slice of lemon may be something you can ask for if you need to wash yours down. You can also order vodka snacks to accompany your drinks, as this is traditional and totally acceptable in Russia.

DON’T Shake Hands With Your Gloves On Or In A Doorway

Russia may be super cold, but make sure to take your gloves off before you shake hands with someone. It is considered absolutely unacceptable and impolite to greet someone with a handshake when your gloves are still on. Another thing to be careful not to do is to shake hands at a threshold, as Russians consider it bad luck to do so, believing it will lead to an argument.

DON’T Smile Without A Reason

In much of the rest of the world, smiling at someone you see on the street or a line at the supermarket is very natural and a sign of friendliness. In Russia, however, people reserve their smiles for their friends and family. In fact, they have a saying: “To smile without a reason is the sign of a fool”.

DON’T Ever Joke About A Russian’s Mother

You can laugh with and joke about a number of things in Russia – from religion and politics to gender jokes. But you can never ever make a joke about someone’s mom, as it is certain to cause great offense and result in a massive argument. Mother is sacred and very much respected in Russia.

Well, now you know the basics about it, visiting Russia will be trouble-free and lots of fun for you. Why not plan your next trip there?

If you enjoyed this article, we’ve got more travel and culture articles for you. If you want to discuss Russia further with a native, there are lots of lovely Russian ladies you can meet on AnastasiaDate today. For more about us, find us on Wikipedia.

How Russian and Ukrainian Women View Relationships

When dating Russian and Ukrainian women online, it really helps to understand how they view love and relationships. For you to figure out ways on how to impress them, you have to know and understand how they think, what expectations they have of men, and what cultural beliefs they have that pertains to partnership, love and marriage. Let’s take a look at some of the common views Russian and Ukrainian women have.

Here’s What You Can Expect When You Date Russian and Ukrainian Women

Family, Always

This is the first core view that you have to know about these ladies. Family is very important to them. It’s likely that they will have a close relationship with their parents, aunts and uncles, and brothers and sisters. Of course, it goes without saying that they, too, want this from their future partner. This is not to say that they would want a family right away, but the major point to remember is that family is important to them whether they want to start their own or not just yet.

Fate & Serendipity

It’s common for women to believe in fate & serendipity. Russian & Ukrainian women are no different. These ladies believe in “when it’s fate, it’s fate”, it’s been written in the stars, what will be, will be and so on. To them, everything happens for a reason. So, how does this help you? This lets you know that you just have to go with the flow. Don’t force things to happen when dating Russian & Ukrainian women.

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Most Russian & Ukrainian women are very traditional. Although changing times have changed certain beliefs, to most, the roles of men and women remain the same. In relationships, men do the pursuing. Women test the men when together to see if their intentions are sincere. In marriage, the man is the provider and the woman is the keeper of the house. This way of thinking comes with a deep sense of culture & tradition. This doesn’t mean, however, that Russian & Ukrainian women just want to stay at home and cook. No, they have their own dreams that they’d like to pursue. They just know their way around the kitchen or know how to keep the household in tip top shape.

Love is Ultimate

Everyone in Russia & Ukraine want to marry for love. To them, love is the ultimate reason why two people should be together – it’s not about money, status or being physically attractive. Love is a vital component in relationships with Russian and Ukrainian women so you have to make sure that these ladies always feel secure and cared for when you’re together. You have to admit that these gals have a very romantic side to them so you, the foreign man, have to have a romantic side as well.

You Take the Lead

This last one is a little bit tricky and it is, somehow, connected to Russian and Ukrainian women defining gender roles. As the man in the relationship, you are expected to take charge. Take charge here doesn’t mean that you’re going to act like a dictator. It just means that you have the relationship down and handled. Yes, it’s tricky to explain but you should be showing this in little things like deciding where to eat or go. You always have to get the bill and you always need to be the gentleman doing the pursuing and wooing. It’s like taking the lead when dancing waltz.

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