To build trust and attraction when dating is possible if you know a few techniques to apply when you are with your special someone. Most people think that attraction is instant and trust is just built over time. While the latter is true, it’s possible for attraction to be created.
Behaviors That Build Trust And Attraction
When it comes to interpersonal relationships that are romantic, one of the most effective ways for you to make that connection is by sending the right signal. Mostly, you can do that with your behavior:
1. Eye Contact Plus Interact
When you are on your date, maintain your eye contact to build attraction. The longer you hold your eye contact, the more attracted you will seem to your date. As you are doing this, interact and ask questions to keep the conversation going.
2. Selectively Imitating Actions
Did you know that imitating your partner’s actions will help build rapport? Yes, but it’s a bit weird if your partner uses a specific hand gesture and you do the same suddenly. Imitating is not about copying your partner’s exact movements.
3. Initiate The Conversation
Initiating a conversation builds attraction. Generally, if you initiate conversation with a person you just met, you are allowing that person to feel more comfortable with you. It’s like telling him or her that you want to know more because the interest is there.
4. Romantic Physical Touch
Don’t try this move before you have built rapport. At first, expect that your interaction as well as your physical touches will be friendlier. For example, a high five or a handshake. However, as you get to know each other, move towards touch that indicates romantic interest, like holding hands.
If you do all four, you’ll build trust and attraction every time you meet your date. There are a few things to remember though. Be sure to move a little slower when the person you’re interested in is more introverted or shy. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.