You would think that communication is something that comes easy. Once a woman talks to you, and you listen and reply accordingly, then that’s communication. Actually, it requires so much more than just the stages mentioned. You might be surprised that a lot of people find communicating effectively difficult.

Communicating Effectively Can Improve Or Restore Relationships

However you think you’re communicating, if it doesn’t improve your relationships, then you’re not doing it right. This is one way to see if your communication skills are on point. If you think otherwise, it could be because of the following reasons:

1. Stress Or Out Of Control Emotions

When we are filled with so many emotions, we have trouble focusing . We cannot deal with the issue at hand or we cannot listen properly because we are bothered by what we feel. Emotions and stress will always be there, but if we know how to manage them, we can effectively communicate.

2. You’re Too Distracted

Is your phone ringing? Do you have that one email at the back of your mind? If you’re too distracted, then how can communicating effectively take place? Be more focused, or better yet, eliminate those that distract you.

3. Inconsistent Body Language

You have to walk the talk. If your actions do not match what you just said, then it’s a sign that you weren’t paying attention at all. Your body language can say a lot about how you’re currently feeling. Always mean what you say.

Starting today, you have to improve your communication skills. Don’t just listen. You have to be in the moment and you have to be focused. Let the other person speak. Allow your conversation to be a contribution of ideas rather than a domination of your own thoughts and words. For more tips on self-improvement as well as dating, read other posts on the blog.

When it comes to dating, you have to spot which women are arrogant and which ones are strong women who can handle their independence. Undeniably, both have a commanding presence, but it’s the strong women you’d want to meet and date.

Strong Women Know How To Handle Themselves

You will encounter so many women as you go through one dating app or site after another. Experts would tell you that you have to cast a wider net by saying hello to all of the women that catch your interest. This is true, but as you chat with these women, you have to sift through the numbers and determine which ones are simply arrogant and which ones are strong women who make great girlfriends (and potentially even wives).

1. Looking Out For Other Women

A string woman always looks out for other women. For example, if you mistakenly make a distasteful comment about women, in general, she will quickly put you into your place. Of course, she will do this with grace and kindness. On the other hand, if you are with an arrogant woman, she will be more than happy to put others under the bus so she can look good.

2. Positive Deposition

People have different energies. You’ll be able to tell from the first time you meet a person. Commonly, you will feel that a strong woman is positive because she only has good things to say and is not very critical of others. She’s also very considerate, and she makes sure that her words will not offend. The opposite can be said with women who are very arrogant.

3. Assertiveness

When you are assertive, you’re showing off your influence and confidence through your personality. This trait is very different from being combative or confrontational, where one insists that you should agree with whatever opinion that he or she has on something. Usually, a strong woman will be assertive rather than dominating.

Now that you know how to spot strong women from arrogant ones, be ready to use what you know so you can find your right match quicker. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.

Have you ever wondered why you can see a lot of gorgeous women who are still single both online and offline? Apparently, they haven’t found the one yet. There are so many reasons behind this, but there’s one that a lot of men haven’t really considered.

Women Who Are Still Single Are Looking For Something Different

Commonly, when you see a beautiful woman sitting alone in a bar, you’d be tempted to approach and talk. In the first few minutes of you chatting together, the woman you just met has already decided whether you’d make a good partner or not. It’s the way that you talk and present yourself. So, what are gorgeous women who are still single looking for?

Not A Friend

It’s definitely polite to be chummy when talking to a woman you’re interested in. You talk about the weather, and then later on you discuss everything that annoys her about her girlfriends. Let’s be clear though, this is not what a gorgeous woman is looking for.

Not Someone Cocky

On the other hand, if you go the other route, as in you become cocky or a jerk to the lady, you will definitely turn her off. The whole bit about negging women do not work in this century anymore especially with the #MeToo movement going on.

Someone Special

It’s definitely cliche to hear that you have to be special for someone to like you. But, it’s what gorgeous women need. They don’t want someone who can treat them as a friend or someone who will treat them badly. They want to find the spark. However, how will you achieve that when you are having a conversation or are chatting? Try teasing, but not the mean kind of teasing. Try flirting. Also, don’t huff yourself up too much. Just let the lady know that you are a “catch” without actually saying it outright.

So starting today, use your creativity to talk about interesting topics. Work on yourself so you’re more confident. Remember that you can never fake the feeling of being comfortable in your own skin. Women who are still single will definitely notice. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.

Usually, men talk differently to impress beautiful ladies they meet online and offline. Their behavior changes so they can, somehow, present themselves in the best possible light. Of course, the end goal is for the lady to fall hopelessly in love. But, most of the time men don’t get the results they desire.

Common Mistakes You Make As You Impress Beautiful Ladies

So, what are you doing wrong? There are two ways for you to look at the situation. You, either, act too friendly or you simply act disinterested, distant, or cold. If you’re not getting it, here are more detailed explanations:

1. Acting Too Friendly

As soon as you meet the lady you’re interested in, you behave better then usual. And, you may even try to put her first in the hopes of catching her attention. She’s used to this treatment and you won’t impress her this way.

2. Acting Too Cold

Most times, men who are afraid of rejection will act cold around the women they are interested in. Although the spark is there, they don’t want to hurt their ego. Of course, acting like you’re not interested will make the ladies think that you don’t see them as potential romantic partners.

When you make these mistakes, you may not impress beautiful ladies you meet through the internet or in real life. What you need to do instead is to try to make her feel that she would be lucky to catch your attention. This will sound very difficult to do for most men, but try the following:

Playful Responses

You can do this in different ways. For example, if she asks you, “So, what did you do over the weekend?” Instead of saying, “I was at home. How about you?” you can say something like, “Wouldn’t you want to know.” Top it off with a winking emoji.

Let Her See You In Your Element

Let’s say you were invited to a friend’s party. If you feel confident that you can show off how suave you are at that party, invite her along with you. If she sees you in your element, it will increase her perception of your value as a potential mate.

Impress beautiful ladies by showing them how great you are as a boyfriend or a husband. It won’t be simple as it is going to require practice, but you will get it eventually. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.