If you think that you can never make mistakes when dating Slavic ladies online or even just dating online in general, you have to think twice because you’re allowing yourself to not pay attention, and that is a recipe for disaster. You always have to pay attention for both your financial safety and emotional safety. So, for your information, we’re providing you with a list of five crucial mistakes you can make when dating Slavic (or any other) ladies online.

These Crucial Mistakes Are Holding You Back In Dating

Mistake #1: Saying “I Love You” even if you don’t mean it.

To a Slavic woman, these three little words mean something very serious. That’s the problem though, isn’t it? Most of us need to take these three little words more serious and we shouldn’t throw them around lightly. Only say it if you mean it because you don’t want the Slavic lady you are corresponding with to string along. You wouldn’t want the same done to you, right?

Mistake #2: Assuming she likes you.

Here’s the thing. Most of the foreign men we talked to had the problem of their Slavic lady just disappearing on them and then, later on, they reemerge saying that they already have a boyfriend. You won’t be let down if you don’t assume anything. To avoid this, make sure that you talk to a Slavic lady about her private life, in a polite manner of course. Don’t just assume that she likes you and that she doesn’t have a boyfriend.

Mistake #3: Moving in too early.

When you have all these intense feelings boiling up inside you, it’s easy to make rash decisions about things. Usually, family and friends will tell you right off the bat that you’re moving too fast or that what you’re doing could be dangerous. This is a good sign that you actually are doing something too early or something dangerous. Stop and listen to the people who care for you. Take things slow and get to know the person first before making any major life choices like moving in.

Mistake #4: Sending money and a lot of it.

Haven’t you heard? This is probably the most popular no-no in the online dating world. It’s been a no-no ever since the online dating game started and it’s a no-no until today for the same reason. Never send money to someone you just met online. This person might be scamming you and you’re risking exposing your personal details. This is just a heartbreak waiting to happen so don’t do it.

Mistake #5: Misrepresenting yourself.

We’ve said this over a hundred times in our blog posts: never misrepresent yourself. You’re risking the trust in the relationship. Think about it because you don’t want things to go sour right before the relationship blossoms. Also, honesty is very important when dating Slavic ladies (or any other lady for that matter).

Avoid These Mistakes

We make the posts but it’s essentially up to you to implement what’s in the post. You’d have to exercise self-discipline, a lot of it, so you don’t get blind-sided by lies and deception. We don’t mean just from her either. Make sure to check yourself and your intentions before diving into something and making these crucial mistakes.

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All relationships need healthy communication. It doesn’t matter if you just started dating or you’ve been in the relationship for years. It’s also necessary for friendships. Any type of relationship has to be open to sharing ideas. For the people in it, they have to be open to discussing how they feel or what they think about.

Healthy Communication Means That You Have To Speak Your Mind

Usually, in relationships, experts would say that you have to pick a fight. And, that’s accurate. But, what you shouldn’t filter are your thoughts. Couple experts tend to think that it is better for a couple to be more outspoken about what they are thinking. They encourage couples to think out loud for the following reasons:

1. Honesty Is At The Center Of The Relationship

When you speak your mind, you won’t have time to think about altering anything. When you don’t think about your words, that’s when you are the most honest, right? So, in a relationship when you are always saying what you think, you’re allowing honesty to be in the center.

2. You Become Open To Talking About Hard Topics

There’s so much that goes on in our head. The thoughts that run in our head aren’t positive sometimes, so there’s bound to be hard topics here and there. When you are open to just thinking out loud then you’ll be forced to conquer tough topics head-on.

3. Both People Change Their Perspective On Healthy Communication

Every time one person in the relationship says what he or she thinks, the other usually presume the fight is going to come after. It doesn’t have to. A couple can think out loud and have a healthy discussion about their thoughts afterward. And, because thinking out loud will be a habit, the couple’s perspective on communication widens.

When you adopt this practice as a couple, you’d have to settle into it. It’s going to feel like speaking one’s mind invites conflict into the relationship, but you will emerge stronger and more stable. You’ll also promote healthy communication which is something that all relationships need to last. For more dating tips and reviews, read other posts on the blog.

Every man on the face of the Earth would love to know the formula for winning over a woman he likes. And while nobody can guarantee you that kind of answers, we can certainly talk about some similar values all single Slavic women have. They include family, love, and passion, just to name a few. There are a lot but let’s start with 6 honest answers to the questions that most men have. If you ask Slavic women what they want in a man, they’re most likely going to answer the following.

You’ll Win Single Slavic Women Over If You Behave Like This

1. Good attitude towards children.

It’s no surprise that single Slavic women want a man who is good with children; a man who loves being around children or a man who knows how to take care of kids (and loves doing it). This, as you may well know, is a good sign that he may become a good father one day.

2. Confident and Intelligent.

This is a no-brainer. All women, no exception, want someone who is confident and intelligent. The combination of these two characteristics is equal to “charm”. If men find a good balance between being confident (without being too cocky) and being intelligent (without sounding like a know-it-all), they are going to come off as charming.

Princesses always end up with Prince Charming in the end of the story, right? You do the math.

3. Good conversationalist.

Most single Slavic women want someone they can talk to or someone they can discuss everything with. Don’t be surprised because Slavic women are actually very interested in art, in current events and sometimes even in politics. Naturally, if you’re a man who can carry a conversation with these kinds of topics (or any topic under the sun, for that matter), single Slavic women will find you interesting, intelligent, probably well-read, maybe well-traveled. Now tell us that those don’t sound attractive.

4. Knows what he wants in life.

There’s nothing more unattractive for a single Slavic woman than a man who doesn’t know what he wants in life. Women, in general, actually do not find this attractive in a guy. If you’re young and you’d like to live wild and free, it’s best that you stir away from dating single Slavic women because you’ll have difficulty finding one that likes instability and unsecured circumstances.

5. Gallant.

Brave, heroic and gives special attention and respect to women – this is what being gallant means. Men in Slavic countries, though not all of them, show gallantry to the women they have in their life. All Slavic women are used to being treated this way and so, even if you’re not from a Slavic country, you’re still expected to show gallantry towards her because it’s the manly thing to do (a sign of being a true gentleman).

6. Ambitious.

So remember what we said earlier about single Slavic women wanting someone who has direction in their life? Let’s add this on top of that. Ambition is always something that’s going to be attractive to all women. Your drive towards success, your drive to provide for your future family and your drive to have a good life – these right here, will melt a single Slavic woman’s heart.

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Once you’ve found a Ukrainian woman who makes you look forward to waking up every day,  it’s time to step up your game. You may be thousand miles away from each other and you may or may not be in a relationship right now but since you’ve shown interest and kept that line of communication open, you can definitely crank things up a notch by doing these three gestures that will make your Ukrainian woman feel special.

Your Ukrainian Woman Will Be Happy If You Do This

1. She’ll love the surprise gifts.

In this kind of relationship, it’s important that you accept the distance that’s between the both of you. Thanks to advances in technology, the distance doesn’t seem that bad because you can chat, text, video conference and etc. This, however, still does not make up for the physical absence. On top of all the communication that you’re doing, the next best thing that you can do to alleviate her longing for your presence is to surprise her with a physical object that you can send via mail or via the gift service on the dating site you are using (if you are signed up to one).

SAFE gifts options to consider:

1. Flowers – this is always a popular gift for any lady. Just remember to double check the Ukrainian customs for giving out flowers.
2. A stuffed animal – yes, it’s corny but that stuffed animal could be your temporary substitute. She will definitely think of you whenever she sees it.
3. Chocolates – need we say more? Chocolates. Everybody loves them!

You can also think of other gifts that are outside of the box. Better yet, since it’s you who knows your Ukrainian woman better, check for hints in her letters or messages to you.

2. Hand-written letters.

There’s nothing that says “romantic” more than hand-written love letters. We know, we know… email and chat are here so why bother? Let us stop you there for a sec and let’s think about it. Sending a hand-written love letter to Ukraine will take up a bit of your time and effort. Yes, it’s true but think about how special your Ukrainian woman will feel when she thinks about what you had to go through to send her this letter.

If you do not have her address, you can ask for it but it’ll give the whole surprise away. It would be better if you go through the dating website you met her in. They probably have a mailing service that you can use – pay the fee and wait for her to receive it.

3. Give her enough attention.

Your time and attention are probably the best things that you can give to your Ukrainian woman. Be online when you say that you will be online. Schedule as much time with her online as your time permits. Pay her compliments when you’re having a conversation. Tell her that you missed her in the few short hours that you haven’t talked. You get what we mean.

Just do not overdo it. It could come off as cheesy and desperate, and you don’t want to be associated with that kind of features.

Ukrainian Woman Needs You To Be Invested

In case you didn’t notice, our 3 tips have a pattern and that pattern is to really show her that you are invested in the relationship or potential relationship.

We’re hoping that our tips will be helpful in your pursuit to find the Ukrainian woman of your dreams. For more tips and dating advice, check the rest of our blog.