An alpha male is a superior male in the pack. He is confident enough to be the leader. Naturally, his confidence catches a lot of females‘ attention. If you want to improve your dating game, you have to adopt some traits an alpha male has to make yourself irresistible.

Say Hello With The Confidence Of An Alpha Male

Let’s get one thing straight, first. An alpha male is not your typical, macho man who comes off as rude to women. No, you must understand that an alpha is a suave individual who shows both respect and confidence in the presence of ladies. With some internalization and practice, you can be an alpha yourself and improve your dating life. Here’s how you can do it:

1. Make It A Game

Approach with a game in mind. This can be nerve-wracking, especially when you haven’t had any practice so start small. When you are attending parties, approach a woman by asking her if she wants to play a game with you. Explain that the winner will be treated to a drink by the loser. You can then play any ice-breaking game you can think of. Try this technique out with a friend and see what she thinks.

2. Bring A Wingman

When you bring a sidekick, your status is already elevated. Your wingman is going to hype you up and say great things about you to the ladies. What you do or say next will depend upon you. Your wingman will then be able to help you identify the flaws in your approaches, if ever you fail.

3. A Group Is The Safest

Going out in a group is the safest for women. However, when a lady is with her posse, it would not be very easy to approach, as they might try to prevent you from getting close. The easiest thing to do is to befriend everyone. Ask questions, engage everybody, and maybe buy them a round of drinks. Eventually, they will warm up to you and allow you to talk to the one you are interested in the first place.

4. Eye Contact

If you are feeling brave and want to approach her directly, your best weapon is your eyes. Look at her directly, without your eyeballs shooting in other directions. This is where confidence can be seen. Practice a look in the mirror. It should project a safe and comfortable aura, but speaks confidence not boastfulness.

5. Compliment Her Shoes

What if everything else fails and you are put in an awkward position? You can glance down and admire her shoes if you are meeting face to face. Women love their shoes and will easily warm up to a subject that they are very knowledgeable about. Maybe you should also brush up on your knowledge of women’s shoes?

Not everyone is born an alpha male. But, with some practice and research, you can become one, too. For more tips about improving your dating game, make sure to check out the rest of the blog.

Anyone who has been in a position where they had to end a relationship surely knows that it’s not an easy thing to do. Breaking the news to someone that you will no longer be together can be tough on both sides. The breakup style, recommended by “Life Incorporated” founder, Halley Bock, is a sensitive and honest way to do it.

“Saying Goodbye” Is The Best Breakup Style

Far from the cold-hearted and impersonal attitude that’s adopted by those who prefer “ghosting” as a way to end a relationship, “saying goodbye” is personal and aims to give actual closure to a relationship that just doesn’t work.

Why Is It Important To Say Goodbye?

Halley Bock, the woman behind this breakup technique, points out that showing compassion is vital when it comes to ending a relationship. While it may be convenient to lay the blame of a breakup on others and accuse them of being toxic or evil, in reality, there is no way for us to ever be freed from the emotional baggage unless we say our proper goodbyes.

According to the inspirational author, there is no reason to carry the burden of a relationship that’s no good for us like a heavy bag of stones on our backs. Instead, she proposes that we adopt a more direct and frank approach to how we finish things off, by explaining the reasons for our decision and offering closure.

How Do You Say Goodbye?

What Bock advises people about to break up is to keep the focus on themselves. A good idea is to talk about the effect of the relationship on the person, instead of accusing the soon-to-be-ex partner of the relationship’s failure. So, instead of saying “You are a bad person” you should choose something like “I feel that this relationship does not have the right dynamic for me”.

In any case, she points out that it is essential to make it clear that there is no going back. When you say goodbye, make sure it is understood that the decision is final and do not leave any windows or hopes of a re-connection open.

How To Handle The Reaction

In the event the other person reacts badly, Bock says you should keep your cool and try not to engage in any kind of altercation. Allow the person to accept the harsh reality, as any kind of reaction may be expected when such news is broken to someone. Try to put yourself in their shoes and see things from their perspective, as any person asked to accept something so upsetting is entitled to a reaction.

Even though this new breakup style may not be groundbreaking exactly, in an era of “fast food” relationships, when there is a term for disappearing without a trace from one, it is good to see things from a compassionate and logical angle and end things in a manner which may not be the easiest thing to do, but seems to be the best for both sides.

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When it comes to dating, we usually asses the people we meet if we have a future with them. We analyze their characteristics and personality to see if they are marriage material. That’s the purpose of dating, after all. However, have you ever wondered if you are the marrying type yourself? AnastasiaDate.com reveals a list through one personality test.

Marriage Material Characteristics

A test called the Myers-Briggs Set says that the type of personality called ISTJ is the most marriageable. It stands for introversion, sensing, thinking, and judgment. Some of the most famous personalities in mainstream media have this personality. George Washington, Queen Elizabeth II, and Warren Buffet are some of the famous people who have the ISTJ set.

How To Know If You Have The ISTJ Set

There are different characteristics that make up this specific set. Although the letters have specific meanings to them, below are individual characteristics that make up the mentioned personality set:

You are old-fashioned.

Have people told you that you are an old soul? ISTJ people value tradition and will really gravitate towards anything that has been “proven and tested”. When people tell you that you’re old-school, take it as a compliment.

You are a homebody.

One of the characteristics of the ISTJ personality is introversion. Therefore, those with this personality set prefer to stay at home watching movies or reading a good book.

It’s the little things that matter.

What’s great about having an ISTJ set personality is that you appreciate the little things in life. You don’t want extravagant things or expensive material possessions. What you want are small projects, walks in the park, and candle-light dinners at home.

You care about being right.

This may or may not be a good trait but, usually, when you have this personality set, you care more about being right rather than making people feel good.

How many of these characteristics do you have? If you don’t have any, it doesn’t mean that you’re not the person who is the marrying type. You can always work on gaining these characteristics if you’re ready to have a long-term relationship that will eventually end up in marriage. For more tips on dating and relationships, check out the AnastasiaDate.com blog.

Everyone is so obsessed talking about making a good impression on a first date that very few talk about the second one. Even fewer ever mention the third date at all. But this is one major mistake because the third one is the defining date for your relationship. You may be thinking this is crazy talk, but you’ll see why this all makes perfect sense.

Why Is The Third Date Super Important?

To understand what really makes the third date such a big deal, it’s a good idea to see what goes on in the previous two.

The awkward first encounter.

Think of yourself on your first date. You probably spend the whole night worrying about the impression you’re making. Have you dressed appropriately? Are you asking her the right questions? Is your body language right? There is so much to worry about you don’t even have the chance or the head to learn and remember much about her.

The is-the-chemistry-really-there second date.

And let’s have a look at the second date. You asked her on one, so it means you liked her on the first one and she liked you enough to accept doing it again. This time, you have promised yourself to learn more about her, worry less about yourself and actually make sure that the connection you suspected on the first date really is there. Chances are that she’s doing the exact same thing with you. So, again, there is so much stress that one of you will blow it and the other will have a change of heart and never want to meet again.

The turning point.

Now, do you see why the third date is made of gold? Once you’ve made it past the second date, you can actually say that you are officially dating. You will be feeling much more relaxed and get the chance to dig deeper into real things in your life that you just mentioned in the previous two dates, you will have a better conversation as the intimacy will have increased, and you know about the ladies’ “third-date rule”. You may even move things forward with some physical action too. The third meet up basically establishes the kind of relationship you’ll have. It’s when you will understand whether you are on the same page as far as relationship goals are concerned, and decide for real if you want to go on that journey together.

With relationships analyzed more than ever these days, you will surely find the third get-together slowly taking its rightful place as the make-or-break, defining moment in people’s relationships.

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