Why in the world would you let a European man give you dating tips? Well, there are two reasons: 1. They get most of the girls without even trying. If you have female friends who have gone to Europe, then you’ve probably already heard of this. 2. You can get great dating tips from European men because they know how the mind of a European woman works. Through this, you can probably understand why many women fall for a European man.

What European Men Know About Dating And You Don’t

Wine or Champagne

You have to develop a taste for either one of these or, better yet, both. You also have to drink it often for the reason that the European women you’re going to meet in the near future are going to be the same. Champagne and most especially wine are almost always drank during or after meals. Keep a bottle or two in your house just in case a beautiful lady comes up for a visit. Also, don’t forget to order a bottle while dining at a nice restaurant.

Boxer Briefs

Is this what European men wear? Yes! It’s sexy and stylish not only to European women, but to women in general. Why do you think Calvin Klein boxer briefs sell like hot pancakes? It’s probably because women from all over the world buy them for their men with the likes of David Beckham and Cristiano Ronaldo as brand ambassadors. Or, men may be buying CK boxer briefs themselves to channel the their inner European football superstar.

Outfit Update

Here’s another one of those valuable dating tips from European men: you should update your outfits. In order for you to snag a European woman, you have to look the part of a suave, worldly, modern man. Well, you can’t perfect yet but you can start with what you’re wearing, especially on dates. Research what European men usually wear and then go from that.

Emotions and Emoticons

With emotions, you basically need to be in touch with your sensitive side just like European men. With emoticons, this may come as a surprise but you’d have to learn how to use emoticons during chats and texts and a lot of it. European men are in touch with their sensitive side and they are not afraid to show it. They also use a considerable amount of emojis and emoticons which European women think are just adorable. Do you want to be adorable too?

Travel Wishlist

We’re totally aware of the desire of everyone to travel to different places of the world. However having the desire doesn’t always mean going through with it. If this is you then don’t worry. European women love a man of the world who loves to travel. If you haven’t yet, express your desire to do so. That’s all there is! If you want, you can even buy a globe and then mark places where you’d like to visit and then explain why to the European lady you’re with.

Higher Chances

These are just a few dating tips. Although most of them are geared towards your appearance, it won’t do you any harm to just follow them. Why not, right? Trust when we say that these will give you better chances with the European ladies.

It’s exciting when you finally find someone interesting online. Let’s say your match has the same interests as you, and you both like the same TV shows. That’s great! But, no matter how connected you seem to be while you’re chatting, you still have to safely meet your online match in real life.

Easy Safety Points To Remember As You Meet Your Online Match

When you finally meet the person you’re interested in, it can really be an exciting time. You become so wrapped up at the moment that you don’t even think about what you can do to keep yourself safe. Essentially, you are still going to meet a stranger so it’s important to be prepared.

Always Take Your Own Car

Never go into your online match’s car. Always take your car so you are in control. This is just a safety precaution as you don’t know your match fully yet. When you feel threatened, you won’t be able to do much when it is not your vehicle.

Let A Friend Or Family Member Know

Always allow a person close to you know that you are going to this place with this person. Give all of your online date’s details or even his or her number so they know who to contact just in case you can’t be reached.

Don’t Drink Too Much When You Meet Your Online Match

It’s normal or usual for a person to drink a glass of alcohol or have a bottle of beer when on a date. Make sure that you stick to just one. You may be tempted to chug down a few more to calm your nerves, but you have to stay alert.

You are going to be the best judge of the situation. You have to be alert, and you have to keep in mind that safety is one of your top priorities. It’s better to be safe than sorry, but don’t guard yourself too much to the point where you are not open to knowing the person. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.

It’s great to have meaningful conversations about different date topics with the person you are seeing but in some cases, your conversations all go to waste. It’s either the date did not work out or the person you’re dating doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship. It won’t sound good, but you have to accept that you may have just wasted your time.

Date Topics That Will Let You Filter Through Potentials

Whenever you are on a date in real life or online, you are expected to talk about certain topics, to get to know each other better through conversations. Use this to filter your through the dates that are good matches for you:

When Was Your Last Relationship?

You might think that this one only requires one answer. It does, but the beauty of this question is that it is an opener for other topics. For example, after your date answers this, you can ask him or her what happened, who broke up with who, and so on.

What Type Of Music Do You Listen To?

Is music your thing? You don’t have to have the same musical tastes to ensure that your relationship is harmonious. You do, however, have to be open to what the other likes. Music is just one aspect of your interests so you can definitely change the question if you want. Then, ask yourself, am I open to what this guy or girl is interested in?

Ask About Something Controversial

Why would you ask about something controversial? Well, for one, you’ll be able to know the person’s inner thoughts about certain societal issues. From there, you will have a clearer view or perspective on how the person’s mind operates.

Be Imaginative With Your Date Topics

When you talk about all three topics on a date, you will, more or less, understand what a person is all about. You’re not going to get to his or her core yet, but you’ll have a good idea. You can always change the questions. Just remember that the goal is to get to know what a person likes or what his or her character is. From there, you should be able to filter the dates you see. For more tips about dating, read other posts on the blog.

Self-love is an issue for a lot of people. Many find it hard to practice although they are aware that they need to. This puts a lot of pressure on individuals to perform and be the best at everything. However, outwardly showing that you are loving yourself isn’t as beneficial as real self-love.

Loving Yourself Means That You Have To Give Up These Thoughts And Beliefs

We all have to keep in mind that self-love is going to be a challenge, especially when we have years of hurt weighing us down. Despite this, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. Start your journey to loving yourself by eliminating the following thoughts or beliefs:

1. Defining Changes In Your Body

We can become old, wrinkled, fat, bald, or experience gravity pulling down on the wrong body parts. So what? That’s nature and that’s just your body. You are still you. Stop being egotistical about your appearance. Nobody can stay as youthful as a 20-year-old, and that’s a fact.

2. Events Are Not Your Life

In our social media world, it seems that we have been living for events. “In a relationship with…”, “Starting a new career in…”, “Trying out online dating” and so on. All of these events are positives, but these lead us to the fear of missing out. You only feel important when there is an event. If nothing exciting is happening,  you feel like your life is crumbling before your very eyes.

3. Judgment And Self-Judgment

When somebody judges us, it can feel debilitating. But, we have a choice not to listen to these things. Don’t let these things define you. However, if the judgment is coming from your own self, you have the power to change it. Self-perception can be a cruel thing because it limits your capabilities as well as your vision. Learn to see the positive in yourself as well as in people.

4. Identifying Yourself With Others

Sadly, a lot of people cannot live independently. They have to constantly have somebody with them, whether it’s a friend or lover. But, if the dependency becomes too much, it becomes unhealthy. You lose your identity. When the person you cling to leaves for any reason, you feel lost and unable to function.

5. Staying Despite The Change

Changes in our life always happen. That’s the only constant thing in this world. When change happens, move on. Don’t keep on looking back. If ever you need to, look back and consider the lessons of the past. But don’t dwell on it anymore.

Loving yourself is very important in order to fully love others. You cannot give what you don’t have, remember this. When you let go of the thoughts or beliefs mentioned on the list, you will realize how better your life is. For more tips on self-improvement and dating, read other posts on the blog.